It's a joke that you are choosing to find offensive because you've got a bee in your bonnet.
I thought this was beginning to get sorted, evidently there is still some bad feeling and more work to do.
Edited, I shouldn't have started my post like that.
I apologise.
I genuinely find it offensive, I don't choose to find it offensive maybe being called a "cuckhold" is acceptable to some folk but not me.
I can't understand why you would think I have a bee in my bonnet I've not posted on here in weeks.
If anyone else would of said it would you still find it insulting?
Trouble with forums is you can't gauge facial expressions and tone of voice used, like in IRL.
So he said it in a joking way but you didn't see it as that.
If you get my drift
Yes I would, if my own father called me that I'd be insulted.
As for saying it in a Joking way putting
after and insult however perceived doesn't make it right.
Sorry I never made the effort at the picnic I still owe you one Peroni and a handshake.